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The Red Fred Project…Join Me


Have you heard of this project yet?

If you’re like me, you haven’t.  It was just introduced to me by my good friend Karen, who knows the creator.

I don’t think there’s much I need to say beyond…please, please take a moment to click on the link and watch the video, then read what this project is all about.  You may want to grab a kleenex…

The Red Fred Project: 50 Books by 50 Critically ill Children

My heart is filled with love for this project, from the beginning of working with a critically ill young person and their family, to the end result of the book and book sales, which The Red Fred Project gives to the family to help with their medical costs.  This truly is an incredible project.  It’s not just about life or death…it’s about giving a child who is chronically ill a chance to be creative, a feeling of purpose, about leaving a legacy and an incredible memory for that child’s family to cherish.

Loving & empowering children, and helping families in need.  This is what life is about.

I’m going to send in a donation…do you want to join me?

They need $75,000 by Sunday, October 13th to move this project forward – so please – donate soon!  If they are short of their goal, by a penny, none of the funding happens for the project — no one’s donation goes through. Even now, the people who have pledged will not see their money leave their account UNLESS The Red Fred Project hits its goal in October.  Give now, give generously, give what you can…every little bit helps!

And then share their link on your facebook page, twitter account, and every other account you’re on…copy it and hand it out at work, church, the dog park, the laundromat, local restaurants, on the bus, in the subway, to your mother, to your brother, to your sister, to your mother’s brother’s sister-in-law…just share it with everyone!

Patty O

The Car Went ‘POOF’!


I was reminded of a story today.  One I think you might enjoy.  I have to admit, had it not happened to me and my family, I wouldn’t have believed it!

Let’s start with a little background…

Background story #1:

I was working as a Purchasing Assistant at an Educational Coop – my job was to get bids/award bids/send out order forms/collect orders/place orders/record & bill shipments…for about 20 schools in the NE region of MN. There was one particular item we seemed to be having a lot of trouble getting for one of our schools.  A desk chair.  After about 2 months the chair was nowhere to be found…it had been lost in transit once, back-ordered a few times…you name it…this chair just wasn’t coming.

Background story #2:

My nephew was attending St. John’s University where he swam for their team.  For Christmas break they headed down to, I think, the Bahamas, where they stayed in a Monastery.

On his first swim in their outdoor pool, he did one length, flipped and accidentally caught his foot on the lane marker.  A long cut on his foot, a visit to the hospital and 2 or 3 stitches later and he was stuck sitting watching the rest of the team swim…for the rest of the trip.

Sometime during his stay, rats got into his backpack and ate all his snacks.

One day when he went to sit on the lone piece of grass to watch his team and read a book…he sat on a bee…and it stung him on the butt (snicker, snicker)

This poor kid just couldn’t catch a break.

And now for the rest of the story…

My sister was looking for company for the 4 hr trip to pick up her son from the airport…and I needed to get that darn office chair for my customer…so off we went.

Chair was picked up from the office supply dealer…Nephew and his friend picked up from the airport…Stopped for dinner and gas…Headed home.

We were about an hour into our trip when all the dummy lights started flashing on my dashboard and I realized we were losing speed.  I asked my sister to look for the mile marker and I tried to hit the gas.  Accelerating wasn’t working so I pulled over.  The minute we stopped the car started to fill with smoke so we quickly got out of the car and walked away.  Seeing that it was just smoking, I ran back and dialed 911 on my bag cellphone (yes, I’m THAT old).  I had just made the call and I heard my sister and the boys yelling at me to get out of there!  There was a small circle of fire under the car.  All of a sudden the car went up in smoke.  No explosion, no fireworks, just ‘POOF’! We did hear a few “pops” which we were told later was the tires blowing.

We just stood there, mouths gaping, and I yelled…”My car!!!”  It was January, around 8:00 at night, and the temperature was below zero….brrrrrr…and my nephew and his friend were in shorts (thankfully with blankets wrapped around them)!

Now remember that 911 call?  Yeah,  it was just for a state patrol to come as the car was smoking – we hadn’t seen any fire when I called.  When he arrived, he called the fire truck…needless to say the car was toast…or at least 80% of it.  The back foot or so was spared.

Thankfully a sweet old couple came along and offered up their car as a shelter for us to stay warm.

The state patrolman finally came to talk to us once the fire was out and I asked him…”Is there anything we should take from the car?”  He just laughed at me and said “There’s nothing left!” and walked away.  Huh…like I was supposed to know just how bad it was….50 yds away behind the fire…and it wasn’t like I’d EVER had a car fire before!  Hrmph.

The sweet couple gave us a ride to the town they were initially headed to…they were on their way for a little gambling.  On the way there, my sister and I were trying to think of what was all in the car.  The first thing we thought of was our purses.  “AAACK – our purses!!!”  OK, what do you keep in your purse?  We started naming things off…wallet, cash, credit cards, pictures…lip balm, sunglasses…then my sister says:  tampons.  I looked at her and said “Sure – fuel for the fire!”  At least we were able to laugh…

When we went back the next day to survey the damage (and because my ex obviously didn’t believe it was as bad as I said it was), the car was bare metal (again, expect that last foot or so).  It was unbelievable to see it up close – the shell of the car, the bare metal seats…I even found a quarter on one seat which had bubbled!  Now that was a hot fire!

I giggled a little when my nephew pulled out a piece of his luggage and a fairly burnt coconut he’d brought home for his Mom…”I was bringing home a coconut for you!”…until I realized he was in tears.  This is one trip I’m sure he’ll never forget.

Oh and lest I forget…remember the desk chair?

Yeah…scorched.

Picture me calling the dear stock lady at the school and the vendor to explain what happened…I think we laughed until we cried!  How many things went wrong in trying to get this order to them?  The vendor assured me he’d ship it out ASAP, and the customer just laughed and shook her head (I could hear it on the phone).

Thank God we were all okay, but what a crazy, mixed up adventure we had that day.

May it NEVER happen again!!!

Patty O

Thanks to Carl Spurgeon on Pinterest for the great photo (this was not my car).

Top 10 Things I Look Forward To…


So here it is…

My list.

The list of things I look forward to.  This list is a combination of “bucket list” items and everyday items and “someday dreams” items.  It’s not put into order by my most important item as #1, it’s more in timeline order.

As I sat down to write this list I realized there are so many more things I could put on here.  The “little things”…like watching Gabi run cross-country races this fall, or her basketball games.  Or seeing Sam off to her 2nd year at college…and the daily phone calls when she’s gone.  Or the chances I get to see Alex, Tom and my adorable grandpuppy Louis (snorts and all). Read more

Flowers and Cows and Worms – Oh My!


My father-in-law has said that I make things more complicated than they need to be.

Well…

Sometimes I guess I do.

Like when it comes to our yard…

It takes me days to “decorate” our yard and my gardens every year.  It’s ever evolving in a manner of speaking…new junk = new garden decor.  Remember the old saying:  ‘Your garbage may be someone else’s treasure’?

Yes…my yard is living proof.  I have dilapidated bird houses, old pans, old faucets, a few faded decor items…you name it.  But they look lovely now!  I love repurposing things, giving them a new home, and showing them a little love…even though they’re old, faded and worn out (hmmmm…maybe I’m describing myself?). Read more

Because Nice Matters


I have a plaque with this saying on it in my living room as a gentle reminder to my family.

As a Mom of three girls, one of which is 23, one 19 and one 12 (all with Fall birthdays), we have had plenty of female hormones raging in this home.  Soon we’ll have two out of the teenage years and one just beginning – whew!  Now add in this perimenopausal Momma to the mix and let’s just say this….poor Tim.  There’s a reason he loves his woodworking shop as much as he does!

But I digress…

A few of the characteristics I’ve tried to instill in my girls are empathy and kindness.  We all react to someone else’s attitude – whether it be bad or good.  Sometimes it’s all too easy to crank back at someone who’s being cranky at us (I’m just as guilty)…but if we can stop ourselves long enough to realize that we don’t know what they may be dealing with – maybe we can deal with it in a different way.  Maybe a smile, a “Have a good (or better) day”, or even a gentle touch on the arm with an “Are you OK?” can do wonders.

Sometimes all someone needs is to know someone cares.

Be that someone today.

Happy Sunday all!

Patty O

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